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Postby Jaeniver » Fri Mar 12, 2004 12:44 pm

Working on a history presentation on a Friday night is kind of sad isn’t it <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0> <BR>Will call it a night soon and lounge infront of the tv and spend some time with my mother. I think she feels neglected <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-blush.gif"border=0> have a big party tomorrow evening so I won’t be home or on aswell <BR><BR>Ren- thanks for your lovely texts <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> was so good hearing from you again <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> hope you’re well and that you didn’t get too bored in your house <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> as we said: think pink elephaunt thoughts <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-devil.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Hobbi- L I keep missing you on TORC and on IM . hope you’re well and that the hectic survey job’s done <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> <BR><BR>Don- I emailed you <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Lots of hugs to everyone!<BR>
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Postby Monoceros » Sat Mar 13, 2004 9:18 pm

Hi!<BR><BR>I'd like to be adopted by you.<BR>That's my second message here and I'm REALLY confused by all this staff. <BR>Everything seems so complicated here.<BR><BR>At first I wanted to join any alliance, but it proved to be very difficult. I can say that I nearly lost myself here.<BR><BR>Would you be so kind and help me out of here?<BR><BR><BR>
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Postby Jaeniver » Sun Mar 14, 2004 7:31 am

Welcome Mono <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR>We'll be glad to help you out <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> It's what we're here for <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Yes, the boards can be daunting and overwhelming in the beginning, Eru knows i was helplessly lost when i first came here <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> but you'll get used to it. Soon you'll get the hang of things and you'll be cruising through the forums <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>So you wanted to join an Alliance. I take it you have difficulty finding one that suits you or you don't know how you can get an alliance.<BR><BR>Well, Here people choose their alliance becayse they like the race, or the person (like Servant of Galadriel can mean the person is fond of the elven queen <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0>)<BR>Other (like me) choose their alliance based on their RP character. But there's no rule for this just choose an alliance you feel comfortable with <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>second, if you click on "my settings" you can see all the alliances you can choose from, which are quiet alot. just click on the one you want and hit "save my settings" <BR>That should do it <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> <BR><BR>Once again, welcome and consider yourself adopted <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> If you have any more questions feel free to ask <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> there's always someone here to help you out <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>*hugs*
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Postby CassieBaggins » Wed Mar 17, 2004 6:11 am

Hello everyone, I'm back <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> Welcome to the family Mono! <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> As for the Allience, I just chose the picture I liked the look of most <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Well, I had a wonderful week, it was my man's first time in England (he's American) so we did the tourist thing here and there, and he marvelled at England's differences and lack of trucks on the road (he's from Oklahoma <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> ). I've just got back from seeing him off at the airport and thought I'd better get catching up on net stuff straight away as there's so much <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Anyway, I guess my biggest news is that my wonderful man proposed to me last Friday, so I'm now an engaged lady <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif"border=0> <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0>
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Postby donnamarie » Wed Mar 17, 2004 9:27 am

hello to everyone!<BR><BR><strong>Don,</strong> hey sweetie<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> how have you been lately? I've been really busy with getting my new store open and under way. I have missed our morning chats, so don't think that I have forgotten about you. I was hoping to catch you this morning but my dumb computer wouldn't load my IM<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif"border=0> I'm about to toss my computer in a cotton field<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR>Talk to you later,<BR>Donnamarie
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Postby Hobbituk » Wed Mar 17, 2004 2:57 pm

That's GREAT news Cassie<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR><BR>Hi everyone, sorry I haven't been around much...work sucks<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR><BR>Hi Mono, welcome to the family. Tell us about yourself!<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>
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Postby CassieBaggins » Thu Mar 18, 2004 4:47 am

Thanks Hobbi <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> And yes work does indeed suck, or anything that gets in the way of net time anyway <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>I'm off to London for the weekend tomorrow so if I don't see you guys ebfore then have a good one <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>
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Postby Donernilwen » Thu Mar 18, 2004 9:31 am

Hey Fam!<BR><BR>Congrats Cassie! I hope you have fun this weekend.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Jae- How did the Fabric hunt go? I never heard about it. Did you get my messages on yahoo?<BR><BR>Donna- I don't know if you ever got on this morning. I'm sorry if I mised you. I could only be on for a little.<BR><BR>Boo- Where are you!? I haven't had a good chat with you in a long time.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Hobb- I'm sorry works a pain. But congrats on the raise!<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0>keep smiling!<BR><BR>Ren- Haven't talked to you for a while but I hope things are going good.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Welcome Mono!!!<BR><BR>Well last night as some of you know, I was working on a update to post here. It was HUGE and I had been working on it for prob. close to an hour. I was almost done and then my family was having dinner so I decided to just add some finishing touches to it after. I was eating dinner and I saw my brother come in here and sit at the computer (he is 11) so I came in and told him to just leave my stuff there and I would take care of it later. And do you know what he did?! He just deleted my windows right in front of me! I don't know why he was being so rude. I didn't do anything to him. Little Jerk! Made me mad. Then about 10 mins later when I was doing my laundry he asks me whay I'm so mad! Can you beilive that!? RRR!!!! So this is just going to be a short version of that cause I have to go to work and I don't know when I will be able to post next.<BR><BR>Well to update you on my life (I know you are dieing to hear about it <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0>)-<BR>Well Last week my friends dad found out through my little sister that my friend Amanda had been skipping school (Well, if you call coming to my house during her lunch period skipping).She got grounded and it was just a couple of VERY stressful days. Then my church had some bascketball games that I went to. My brothers game was close the whole time. They were tied with 6 seconds left to go when our team got the ball and right at the buzzer my brother made the winning shot. It was great. The team and most of the croud came and jumped on him. Then they lifted him up. We went to my friends house for pizza to celebrate after. Then the next day I went to the local high school for a varieity show. It was really funny. They had a "around the world" fashion show and the guy modeling britans clothes reminded me of you hobbi. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> Although he had reddish hair. Well then my friend (amandas twin sister from arizona) Janette came to visit. Her parents are divorced and she lives with her mom. I went around all yesterday with her shopping and to lunch and stuff. It was fun. And I don't know if I have told any of you guys this yet but I am going with my dad on one of his bussines trips back west tonight.I will be gone till the 31st but I hope to have access to a computer for most the time I'm there so you might hear from me. We will be in the same area I used to live in so I will be staying with cousins and friends while my dad is in meetings for a week. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> But I hope everyone is doing well. Talk to you later! Have a great weekend everyone!
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Postby Hobbituk » Fri Mar 19, 2004 1:51 am

<em>They had a "around the world" fashion show and the guy modeling britans clothes reminded me of you hobbi. </em><BR><BR>What was he wearing?<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR><BR>(and my hair is slightly reddish)
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Postby donnamarie » Wed Mar 24, 2004 11:01 am

<strong>Cassie,</strong> congrats and good luck to you<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR><strong>Hello</strong> to the whole family, hope all is well<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR><strong>Don,</strong> I have really missed talking to you<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif"border=0> What day was you gonna take off? Sorry can't remember, I have been so busy. If I have missed you I hope you have fun, and come home soon<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Anyway everyone have a great day!<BR>Donnamarie
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Postby CassieBaggins » Thu Mar 25, 2004 5:06 am

Hey everyone, I haven't been on the site for a few days, I've been so busy at uni <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif"border=0> But everything was productive and I can have a few days of rest now at home reading and surfing the net of course <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Hope you're all well <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>
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Postby Boudiccallama » Thu Mar 25, 2004 8:58 am

Hello Family, <BR>Sorry I haven't been around much. Busy school, work, plays, life. I just got cast in the summer show. Don might be interested in hearing that, eh? I don't know when it goes up, but I am guessing it's around the end of May. The show is Into The Woods and I am going to be Little Red Riding Hood's Granny and the voince of the giant. The parts aren't what I was hoping for, but I am really exctied to be hanging around a bit for the summer. <BR><BR>One reason is, well, there's this guy. His name is Sam and I am smitten by him. We are developing a pretty awesome friendship. So much so that I don't want my little juvenile crush to get in the way of it. I do have a crush on him, but I have decided that what I want most out of this is a marvelous friendship. It actually looks like it's happening that way, too. Anyhoo, so Sam is hanging around for the first summer term and getting cast means more time to strengthen our newfound friendship. Yay. I am smitten. Or as they say "full of smit." <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>So, that's what's going on with me. hugs to all. I miss talking to you and reading updates here. Where is everyone?<BR><BR>Anyway, I am a hungry duckie and so I am heading down to eat. Hope to hear from you soon.<BR><BR>Bou.
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Postby CassieBaggins » Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:53 am

Hi everyone, hope you had a good weekend. I just sat around watching tv and playing that Crimson Room game <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0>
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Postby Jaeniver » Tue Mar 30, 2004 12:22 am

dropping in and sending enormous hugs to everyone <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> i am terribly busy and need to limit my time for RPs mostly <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif"border=0> school's drawing to a close so exams coming up and this means working my behind off for weeks in a row...only few days of peace is a 2 day trip to Paris in April <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>be well everyone!! the big sis is still watching your every move so behave <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0>
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Postby CassieBaggins » Tue Mar 30, 2004 8:36 am

Good luck with all the exam stuff <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR>It seems spring may well have arrived in England, so I am happy <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> Hope everyone else has good weather and smiles <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>
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Postby Donernilwen » Wed Mar 31, 2004 7:21 pm

Hey guys! Its great to be back.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> I will tell you about my trip (yes <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0> whether you want to hear about it or not) a little later.<BR><BR>Hobb- to answer your question about what that guy was wearing, some jeans that had one legg the british flag and a denim jacket with the flag on the back and a tshirt and a funky looking hat. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> <BR>So hows work going?<BR><BR>Jae- Good luck with your school stuff. I know how that goes. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0> <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> <BR>So whats going on with your costume?<BR><BR>Boo- I've talked to you a little bit but I might not be on again tonight.<BR>Ohhhh<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif"border=0> You are going to be in a play in may?<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> I will see what I can do.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> any dates set yet?<BR><BR>Cassie- Its nice to hear it is looking like spring somewhere. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0> I have only been back a day but it is looking very rainy at the moment.oh wells...<BR><BR>Has anyone seen Ren around? I haven't talked to her in ages.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif"border=0><BR><BR>well Talk to you later!<BR><BR>-Don
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Postby Jaeniver » Thu Apr 01, 2004 4:28 am

still swamped at the moment <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Don- welcome back <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> and yes tell us all <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> the costume's going well(was put on hold for a bit due to schoolwork) and i'm going to work on it on saturday <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> so woo hoo!<BR><BR>hugs for the rest gotta run and practise for a dance performance on the 30th of April <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> on the road to fame <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0>
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Postby Earundra » Thu Apr 01, 2004 7:03 am

Hi guys, everyone who remembers me.<BR><BR>Realised I haven't spoken to my adoptive family for a very long time!!<BR>Sorry!<BR><BR>hugs to everyone, hope everyone's having a good time.<BR>Liking the new house btw.<BR><BR>I'm happily singing along to Evanescence <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Hope the band's going well Hobbi!<BR><BR>Speak to everyone soon.<BR><BR>Oh, and welcome all new siblings!! <BR><BR>~Earu~
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Postby CassieBaggins » Thu Apr 01, 2004 10:24 am

Nice to meet you Earu <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Don, it was a lovely day yesterday, but just to make up for it it rained today <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> ie it's definitely April lol.<BR><BR>Hope everyone's week is going well and yay for the Fridayness of tomorrow <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0>
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Postby Donernilwen » Fri Apr 02, 2004 8:40 pm

Hey guys, <BR><BR>Onec again, I have another problem I need help with. I can't go to my RL friends cause they are kinda involved with the problem. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Well our prom is coming up in little while and I was planning on going with a bunch of friends of course but I was talking to my two best friends and they were thinking we would just go in a group singly ....that doesn't make any sence ....let me put it this way, They want to go as a group, but they don't want to go with a date...you know like a guy. I have never heard of this and I was really set on going with someone(a date). My one friend rachael has had some bad experiences with guy friends lately and she is kinda anti guy at the moment. So she doesn't want to go with a guy. My other friend is kinda inbetween. She could go ether way. The only problem is we don't have alot of guys and the ones we have to hang out with are ether to young to go or they are clueless to the fact that we would want to go and they wouldn't even ask us let alone go themselves. <BR><BR>So I guess what I need to know is , am I being selfcentered by wanting to go with a guy? or if we decide to go with some guys, should we ask them or what? I have no clue what to do. I thought it would be fun to set each other up on blind dates for prom but I don't know... blind dates don't always turn out the best and I would hate to ruin my best friends prom. anywho if you have any advice it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!<BR><BR>-Don
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Postby Jaeniver » Sat Apr 03, 2004 2:32 am

Hmmm, difficult situation Don. Well,lets have a think. <BR><BR>You want to go to the prom with your friends but they don’t want to go with boys (or at least one doesn’t) First thing: why should she be the one who has the biggest say in this? It is your prom aswell. If you wat to go with a boy then say so(yes I kow this is difficult because you don’t want to ‘betray’ them) if she’s a real friend she’d understand your decision.<BR><BR>But going with just a group of friends can be just as fun, maybe less intimite but still fun <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR><BR>And if the boys you hang out with are so clueless then why not try asking someone you don’t usually hang out with, but would like to get to know better. It would be a great start. Unless of course you do want one of the boys you hang out with, if so just ask them <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> who knows, maybe they’ll enjoy going with you! <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>And you’re not selfcentered <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> you just want a prom that’s worthy of remembrance <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> that’s totally normal! Just ask your self what you want best: a prom with a group of friends, or a prom with a date….<BR><BR>*hugs* for you dear I am not sure I helped but it was all I could come up with so early in the morning <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR>
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Postby Jaeniver » Sat Apr 03, 2004 2:32 am

Hmmm, difficult situation Don. Well,lets have a think. <BR><BR>You want to go to the prom with your friends but they don’t want to go with boys (or at least one doesn’t) First thing: why should she be the one who has the biggest say in this? It is your prom aswell. If you wat to go with a boy then say so(yes I kow this is difficult because you don’t want to ‘betray’ them) if she’s a real friend she’d understand your decision.<BR><BR>But going with just a group of friends can be just as fun, maybe less intimite but still fun <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR><BR>And if the boys you hang out with are so clueless then why not try asking someone you don’t usually hang out with, but would like to get to know better. It would be a great start. Unless of course you do want one of the boys you hang out with, if so just ask them <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> who knows, maybe they’ll enjoy going with you! <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>And you’re not selfcentered <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> you just want a prom that’s worthy of remembrance <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> that’s totally normal! Just ask your self what you want best: a prom with a group of friends, or a prom with a date….<BR><BR>*hugs* for you dear I am not sure I helped but it was all I could come up with so early in the morning <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR>
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Postby Donernilwen » Sat Apr 03, 2004 12:33 pm

Yeah that did help Jae. Thanks.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> I think my friend Rach (anti guy) would understand but I guess I should just talk to her about it. <BR>I would just go ask one of my guy friends to go with me but this is the first time I've gone to prom and I haven't heard alot about how you ask each other. Is it normal for girls to ask guys???<BR><BR>-Don
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Postby Jaeniver » Sat Apr 03, 2004 1:17 pm

we don't have proms here so i do not know what the 'rules' are besides having fun.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>I think it would be more galant and romantic if a boy asked you but as hardly any boy remembers how to be galant and romantic(exeptions are there of course<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>) then why not take matters into your own hands. perhaps the boy's scared to ask you, afraid to look like a fool. Just think this way:<BR><BR>If i ask him and he says yes, i have a date.<BR>If he says no, then i'll have a great evening either way as i'll be with my friends.<BR><BR><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>
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Postby Donernilwen » Sat Apr 03, 2004 3:57 pm

Thats a great way to look at it Jae.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> I was talking to my brother about it and he had no ideas for me and didn't seem to think it was a big deal.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif"border=0> I think I think about things to much. I should just relax and talk to my friends and just ask a guy.He prob. would say yes since most of the guys I know are really nice.<BR>-Don
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Postby Donernilwen » Tue Apr 06, 2004 6:20 pm

Hey I just wanted to give the house a bit of a bump and.......<BR><BR>Happy Birthday Boo!!!!!!! <BR>*throws confetti everywhere* <BR>Hope you had a great day! Best birthday wishes!<BR><BR>I'm missing our chats boo and donna but I guess you guys are pretty busy by the sounds of it.<BR><BR>Hobb and Ren HAven't talked to you in a LONG time. How you doing?<BR><BR>-Don
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Postby CassieBaggins » Wed Apr 07, 2004 2:13 am

It is a bit quiet around here....shocking <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Jaeniver that pic in your sig is beautiful <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR>And Happy Birthday Boo <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0>
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Postby Jaeniver » Wed Apr 07, 2004 6:16 am

Thank you so much Cassie <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> i'm rather fond of it to, i stumbled across a black and white drawing one night and began to fiddle around with it in Photoshop<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> this is the result. i made 4 other different coloured ones but this one fitted my RP character best <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> she's kind of moody and dark.<BR><BR>Boo- congrats girl!!! i hope you had a good day <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Don- thanks for the lovely chat we had a while back <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> <BR><BR>Ren- and it was good to catch you to after so long <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0> remember what i said, remember to breathe <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0><BR><BR>Hobbie- sending hugs your way <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif"border=0> please be well <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0>
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Postby CassieBaggins » Wed Apr 07, 2004 10:28 am

Ah so you coloured it youself, great job <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0>
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Postby Donernilwen » Wed Apr 07, 2004 4:09 pm

Wow Jae! You colored that in yourself? Man you must be REALLY good or you have an awesome photo shop. I'd put my money on the first one though. <img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif"border=0><BR>Right now my photo shop isn't working.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-rolleyes.gif"border=0> stupid thing.<BR>HAve you guys thought about entering the sig contest? I thought It might be fun but I have no ideas whatsoever.<BR>oh well. Talk to you guys later.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><BR><BR>-Don<BR><BR>Hey guys talk to you later! I will be gone for a few days to the beach.<img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0><img src="http://www.tolkienonline.com/mb/i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif"border=0> Just FYI.Bye bye!<BR><BR>
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